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Crisis Pregnancy Is Age-Old: Adoption’s Beginnings
August 13th, 2018

  I published two Adoption Insight booklets exactly twenty years ago, and how happy I would be if the contents of those booklets had become obsolete in that time. Oh how I wish they were relics of an outdated, reformed adoption system. Alas, that isn’t the case. Women facing crisis pregnancy is a situation as […]

It Matters to Adoptees How We Got Here!
July 26th, 2018

I had a great run of success in the 90s getting Letters to the Editor about adoption published: Harper’s Bazaar and Time magazine and USA Today, Los Angeles Times and various smaller regional newspapers. (Newspapers—how quaint!) I came to hold that particular genre in high regard. I dubbed it “micro-journalism”: a way for readers to get small but potent doses of […]

The Primal Wound: Separation Trauma IS Trauma…At Any Age
July 17th, 2018

As a society we are rightly outraged by the separation of immigrant parents and children. That these children will suffer emotional wounds due to this separation, amidst such chaotic circumstances, is collectively, instinctively assumed. But where is the outrage—or even a drip of compassion—over the separation of mothers and babies in the case of adoption? […]

The Reunion with my Birthmother
July 5th, 2018

  This article was published in the adoption magazine Roots & Wings in 1993 about my adoption reunion with my birthmother. (I know, “adoption reunion” is an oddly over-descriptive term to use in an article in an adoption series. Blame the tyranny of SEO!) In the spirit of truth and authenticity, I’m reissuing this cache of 90s articles […]

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